About Mary Ann
Mary Ann Aiello is one of the most respected matrimonial and family law attorneys on Long Island. With over 40 years of dedicated practice in New York matrimonial law, she has built a career defined by rigorous preparation, courtroom skill, and a genuine understanding of what her clients are going through. She founded the firm with the belief that every client — regardless of the complexity of their case — deserves first-class legal representation delivered with compassion and clarity.
Mary Ann's reputation within the legal community is exceptional. She is regularly referred clients by fellow attorneys and sitting judges — a rare distinction that speaks to the respect she commands among her peers. When attorneys and their own family members face divorce, many turn to Mary Ann Aiello. That trust is earned through decades of results.
In addition to her courtroom work, Mary Ann is a skilled mediator who helps couples resolve even the most difficult disputes outside of litigation. She understands that for many families, a negotiated resolution — one that preserves some measure of civility and reduces conflict — is far better for children and adults alike than a prolonged court battle. She brings this perspective to every case, always asking first whether a non-litigated outcome can serve her client's goals, and then preparing thoroughly for trial if it cannot.
Mary Ann has been named to the Super Lawyers list for ten consecutive years, a recognition given to fewer than five percent of attorneys in New York. She is a longtime member of the New York State Bar Association, the Nassau County Bar Association, and the American Inns of Court — an organization dedicated to professionalism, ethics, and excellence in the legal profession.
Approach & Philosophy
Mary Ann believes that understanding her client's goals — not just their legal position — is the foundation of effective representation. Before developing a strategy, she listens. She asks the questions other attorneys sometimes skip: What do you actually want your life to look like after this is over? What would feel like a fair outcome? What are you most afraid of? The answers to those questions shape everything that follows.
She approaches every case with full preparation. She does not assume a matter will settle, and she does not take shortcuts in discovery or case development. That thoroughness serves her clients whether the matter resolves through negotiation, mediation, or trial.